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In the summer of 2009, I volunteered as a camp counselor at a Midwestern Christian camp. By this time, of course, I had been an atheist for eight months, and was in my “militant” phase. But I still volunteered to help run this church camp. My reasoning was simple: I had volunteered here before and I knew the teenagers who would be enrolled in the camp. I wanted to be a part of their lives, to try and give them a glimpse of the liberal-scholarly approach to religion and Christianity.
It was a difficult experience; I often found myself shaking my head and scoffing inwardly as the campers and staff sat around the campfire and talked about the “power” of Jesus in their lives. I had some problems with leadership, who expressed concern that i was too negative toward the church. But, for the most part, I kept my most aggressive opinions to myself. There was, however, one camper I confided in. His name was Matt Sluder, and he was a senior in high school. He struck me as someone intuitive, introspective, and informed. More than this, though, I think I trusted him enough to be honest because I saw in him the same sort of searching, cynical outsider-ness that I myself felt. Neither one of us really belonged in that campfire circle; neither one of us bought into the stories anymore. But both of us still wanted to sit, to observe, to be involved.
For me, it was likely nothing more than a last attempt to get the message of “reason” across to young people who were in the process of forming their selves. I cannot say what Matt’s reasons were, other than these were his friends, his peers, and he had deep emotional and experiential ties with them.
Whatever the case, I sat in the outskirts of the circle next to Matt, the firelight barely illuminating our features, and I told him, “To be honest, I’m an atheist. I don’t believe a word of this anymore. I’m just here because I care about you guys,”. To which I believe he informed me that he was unclear on his own beliefs, but he was leaning towards self-identifying as an agnostic. We spent a moment talking about the path of doubt we had tread, the road out of faith. And then the moment was over; we never spoke about it again.
Almost three years later, I find myself reading through a new blog/documentary project by Matt Sluder and Will Findley (another highly-reflective student I was very fond of). Titled When It Rains, the project aims to interview people across the United States (with a particular focus on Millennials) concerning issues of faith and religious belief. (I’ve included the link, so go read their own words about what this project means, aims for, etc).
It is clear to any but the most fanatical reality-deniers. The landscape is changing when it comes to religion and belief in America. If I identify myself as an ex-Christian, ex-religious millennial, I am no longer a lonely voice. Organized, traditional religious organizations are faltering, failing to hold sway over the lives of “young adults.” It’s a cultural shift that means many things to many different people. To the mainstream religious, it may pose a challenge. A sort of “What do we do to reach them?” moment. To the fundamentalists, it probably engenders a kind of, “The world’s going to hell in a hand basket” crazy-time response. And to the atheists like me, it perhaps causes too smug a reaction. “Mmhmm. Mmhmm. I was a pioneer in millennial unbelief.” Or perhaps, “Your doom is inevitable, religions.”
Whatever the response, it is important for there to be a conversation, an examination, of what has changed, why it has changed, and perhaps, where it is all going. It’s a conversation worth having, and Will and Matt are working to encourage that conversation. But they cannot do it without support. So check out their blog, and if this documentary sounds like something you would be interested in, consider helping them fund it via Kickstarter.. If you cannot afford to donate, pass the word on to someone who is interested in this sort of thing.
Will, Matt: get out there and figure out why I’m so fucked up.